You may have a point about "artificially limited horizons", but as a gay man I cannot imagine why I would ever WANT to have a scantily clad woman rub herself against me. Unlike some gay men, I don't detest women - I know quite a few I value as friends. That said, I think of the idea of getting a "lap dance" from a woman with about the same level of enthusiasm as the average heterosexual male would for getting one from a scantily clad male dancer.

As for being "interesting" - such is in the eye of the beholder, and I don't really worry much about how entertaining you might or might not find my postings.