Couldnt agree with you more. I met tony... *counts on fingers*... 7 years ago, he was my partner's good mate. I'm sure you can imagine how frustrating it would be to be monogamous but sharing a camper van with Tony. So we just became friends instead.

Though I can still hear the horror in my ex's voice when (after we'd long broken up) he heard that Tony and I had finally shagged. Heh heh!!