growler_south: (saff)
growler_south ([personal profile] growler_south) wrote2006-11-24 06:57 pm

Intriguing thought:

I dont go to saunas or sex clubs as I think anonymous sex is at best a waste of time and at worst a complete turnoff. (And, with no way of knowing if I'll be bored stiff or scared flaccid, I figure I might as well not bother).

However, I do rather like the idea of meeting people outside of a bar or the internet.
Sooo...
All I have to do is go to a sex club and not have sex!

So simple, I'm not sure why I didnt think of it before.

[identity profile] mathan.livejournal.com 2006-11-24 02:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I used to go for the sex and I soon realized that it wasn't the end all/be all that I was thinking it might be. I soon changed it around so that going to the baths was more about relaxing - the hot tub, the saunas, etc... If something happened, great. If not, then that's fine too.