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growler_south ([personal profile] growler_south) wrote2005-04-01 06:46 pm

Gaydar's up.

My new Gaydar profile (worksafe) is up. Perhaps a little ambitious at this stage, and doesnt quite gel with the public perception of me (for some reason I have a reputation as a slut and anybodies, now fancy that!! LOL) but its true to the way I feel and have felt for a while. And, truth be told, its the way I've been behaving lately too: even in Sydney, though I was flirting with EVERYONE, I only slept with people who proved they had beautiful souls...

About me:
Deeply loving and loyal to my friends, I tend towards polyamoury and sometimes blur the boundaries between friendship and love, which can be complicated, but rewarding. I strive to better myself, and quietly hold unconventional views on spirituality and the way the world works.
I work with computers for money and cars for fun. Most evenings you`ll find me out with friends, and if I`m not out then I`m online chatting.

Looking for:
I`m physically attracted to big, beefy guys, but a lack of personality, love and mutual respect will turn me right off. I tend not to enjoy casual, uncaring sex- I`m growing as a sexual being and have moved past the physical act being the be-all and end-all of sex. The sort of thing that I enjoy now involves trust and respect and synergy, a mutual exploration of roles and desires. If that confuses you then thanks for reading this far and have a nice day ;-)
Not specifically looking for a relationship: when its ready it will happen, and until then the love I get from my friends is plenty.
If you`re an interesting and caring guy and can win my heart then lets talk :-)


Theres a couple of new pics too, just for the hell of it, and I'll try and get a couple more just to remove the 'newbie' look...

[identity profile] lumberjackie-o.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 07:07 am (UTC)(link)
fabulous!!

i want to fuck you...


...but get to know you more first...;)

[identity profile] beg1n.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 07:14 am (UTC)(link)
I like it

[identity profile] beastbriskett.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 07:22 am (UTC)(link)
Good job! Wish my profile could be as honest and poetic.

[identity profile] lumberjackie-o.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 07:25 am (UTC)(link)
you just want his body!!

slut!

[identity profile] beg1n.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 07:26 am (UTC)(link)
heh...he knows that's not true.

nyah.

[identity profile] pa747sp.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 08:04 am (UTC)(link)
Yeh, but I'd still shag ya ;)
ext_173199: (LB Pride)

[identity profile] furr-a-bruin.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 09:25 am (UTC)(link)
I'll take the leftover casual sex.

[identity profile] ridledidle.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 09:34 am (UTC)(link)
I think it is very well written. Good job. I would be engaged (ok, I am engaged by it) if you weren't like 6k miles away.

Some guys may be thrown for a loop by the band on your hand in the photo, tho.

[identity profile] boofbiker.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 09:55 am (UTC)(link)
I think describes you very nicely. Nice new pics as well. You'tre a good guy and damn it being so far away......

[identity profile] gregorbehr.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 02:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Funny, I saw that band straight off as well.

[identity profile] gregorbehr.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Well done babe. From all of our conversations, I would say it sounds very much like the person I've grown to know and adore.

[identity profile] growler-south.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)
I know thats not true. Well, mostly ;-)

[identity profile] growler-south.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)
It can be- honesty up front saves everyone a lot of time, I find.

[identity profile] growler-south.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 03:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Too late, sorry. You get full-blown 'i luvs ya' sex. Hope thats acceptable...

[identity profile] growler-south.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 03:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Dont worry, it throws me for a loop as well- I'd take it off and return it to the rightful owner, except I cry like a little girl at the mere thought. Someday, maybe, but until then it just stays there as a reminder that I can love, and do love, and will love again.

[identity profile] growler-south.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 03:11 pm (UTC)(link)
you get it now then? :-)

[identity profile] growler-south.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 03:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Its good to clarify who I am and what I want. And damn it for being so far away too.

XX

[identity profile] gregorbehr.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 03:12 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL
yes i do. :)

[identity profile] growler-south.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 03:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh I know... you know me pretty well now, i even think you got the 'casual sex' thing last time I was in Melbourne...

[identity profile] growler-south.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 03:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Your such a tart... ;-)

[identity profile] growler-south.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 03:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Good. Its who I am and what I want and its honest. If you like it then you'll like me too. And that thought makes me very happy indeed :-)

[identity profile] f8n-begorra.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 03:55 pm (UTC)(link)
There's nothing about the operation or the children..?
*grin*

[identity profile] dacubsf.livejournal.com 2005-04-01 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)
that's awfully G rated. I feel jipped. LOL

j/k well yes there were no nekid pics of you. But I like it

[identity profile] monstermashrna.livejournal.com 2005-04-02 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
Soooo wholesome... nice pics toooo, although I may not share your sexual likes with my Mum.... shock horror... do people really do that sort of thing?? LOL!!

[identity profile] growler-south.livejournal.com 2005-04-02 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
Nor the swiss bank account and the fact that my penis is unfeasably large.

mischievious little bugger...

[identity profile] growler-south.livejournal.com 2005-04-02 05:32 am (UTC)(link)
LOL I do vanilla as well. As foreplay. ;-)

[identity profile] monstermashrna.livejournal.com 2005-04-02 07:09 am (UTC)(link)
Yes I've seen the "toolbox" photos... You Neopolitan people!!! I don't know?? I'm Vanilla all the way and proud of it...