Gaydar's up.

[growler_south]

My new Gaydar profile (worksafe) is up. Perhaps a little ambitious at this stage, and doesnt quite gel with the public perception of me (for some reason I have a reputation as a slut and anybodies, now fancy that!! LOL) but its true to the way I feel and have felt for a while. And, truth be told, its the way I've been behaving lately too: even in Sydney, though I was flirting with EVERYONE, I only slept with people who proved they had beautiful souls...

About me:
Deeply loving and loyal to my friends, I tend towards polyamoury and sometimes blur the boundaries between friendship and love, which can be complicated, but rewarding. I strive to better myself, and quietly hold unconventional views on spirituality and the way the world works.
I work with computers for money and cars for fun. Most evenings you`ll find me out with friends, and if I`m not out then I`m online chatting.

Looking for:
I`m physically attracted to big, beefy guys, but a lack of personality, love and mutual respect will turn me right off. I tend not to enjoy casual, uncaring sex- I`m growing as a sexual being and have moved past the physical act being the be-all and end-all of sex. The sort of thing that I enjoy now involves trust and respect and synergy, a mutual exploration of roles and desires. If that confuses you then thanks for reading this far and have a nice day ;-)
Not specifically looking for a relationship: when its ready it will happen, and until then the love I get from my friends is plenty.
If you`re an interesting and caring guy and can win my heart then lets talk :-)

Theres a couple of new pics too, just for the hell of it, and I'll try and get a couple more just to remove the 'newbie' look...

Comments

[ridledidle.livejournal.com]

I think it is very well written. Good job. I would be engaged (ok, I am engaged by it) if you weren't like 6k miles away.

Some guys may be thrown for a loop by the band on your hand in the photo, tho.

[gregorbehr.livejournal.com]

Funny, I saw that band straight off as well.

[growler-south.livejournal.com]

Dont worry, it throws me for a loop as well- I'd take it off and return it to the rightful owner, except I cry like a little girl at the mere thought. Someday, maybe, but until then it just stays there as a reminder that I can love, and do love, and will love again.