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growler_southUnable to deal with missing each other any longer, Rick drove up to Auckland last night. We'd planned to meet at 5, my evil clients did their best to sabotage that but, given that I am the rockingest Maya operator on the planet, I managed to have everything done and approved by 4:55. Rick's evil clients, however, ambushed him at the last minute. Grrr.
7pm Rick arrives and everything's better. Ive been pining for my husbears a little (okay, a LOT then) and a midweek fix was just what I needed. Takeaways eaten in the grass on the top of Mt Eden, a truly atrocious cheap cigar (the rest of the box went in the bin along with the half-finished butts), talking about all sorts of stuff- from the future of our relationship, to that video where the lady falls through the trapdoor... And of course back home for beer, Ab Fab, and filthy dirty loving homo sex. Damn I'm going to miss that workshop, with its oh-so-handy car bonnet (hood) and gently sloping concrete floor.
Rick believes in fate, I believe that the world works in harmony to give people what they need to grow (which is a long-winded way of saying "Fate")
Morris and Rick met via a mutual friend/lover who later refused to pass on each others contact details- Rick being in TeAroha and Morris in Auckland meant that their chances of meeting again were slim. And then they bumped into each other in an obscure chatroom...
I first chatted to Morris about the same time I met Taz. Like within the same week. The boys are so loveable that if I hadnt been involved with Taz I could easily have fallen head over heels, and never had to learn to appreciate them as friends first. It was almost as if my time with Taz was intended to keep me emotionally occupied.
Even the timing when I proposed was, in a way, perfect- 4 hours before my weekend guest arrived. I would have liked nothing more than to drive at once ot TeAroha and discuss the idea with the boys, but I had a whole weekend to really think about what I wanted and what I was letting myself in for (Pweb's intense and needy love providing a striking example of what I DIDNT want, and reassuring me that a relationship with my 2 best mates really was a good idea) and on that note I wonder if Morris is currently thinking something similar? perhaps not, Kevin seems far more relaxed than Pweb, the contrast might not be so clear.
Morris being busy this week with Kevin is hard for him but in a way its good for me- I know how much Morris loves me, we've spent enough time together for that to be abundantly clear, but Rick was always the unknown quantity. With Morris temporarily disabled Ive spent more time with Rick, making up for all those wasted months and getting to know him on a more emotional level. Of course I miss Morris something chronic but the things i've learned about R are probably worth it.
Friday is Bears night at Kamo, and our first big outing as a threesome. Our first big ANYTHING as a partnership really- should be interesting.
7pm Rick arrives and everything's better. Ive been pining for my husbears a little (okay, a LOT then) and a midweek fix was just what I needed. Takeaways eaten in the grass on the top of Mt Eden, a truly atrocious cheap cigar (the rest of the box went in the bin along with the half-finished butts), talking about all sorts of stuff- from the future of our relationship, to that video where the lady falls through the trapdoor... And of course back home for beer, Ab Fab, and filthy dirty loving homo sex. Damn I'm going to miss that workshop, with its oh-so-handy car bonnet (hood) and gently sloping concrete floor.
Rick believes in fate, I believe that the world works in harmony to give people what they need to grow (which is a long-winded way of saying "Fate")
Morris and Rick met via a mutual friend/lover who later refused to pass on each others contact details- Rick being in TeAroha and Morris in Auckland meant that their chances of meeting again were slim. And then they bumped into each other in an obscure chatroom...
I first chatted to Morris about the same time I met Taz. Like within the same week. The boys are so loveable that if I hadnt been involved with Taz I could easily have fallen head over heels, and never had to learn to appreciate them as friends first. It was almost as if my time with Taz was intended to keep me emotionally occupied.
Even the timing when I proposed was, in a way, perfect- 4 hours before my weekend guest arrived. I would have liked nothing more than to drive at once ot TeAroha and discuss the idea with the boys, but I had a whole weekend to really think about what I wanted and what I was letting myself in for (Pweb's intense and needy love providing a striking example of what I DIDNT want, and reassuring me that a relationship with my 2 best mates really was a good idea) and on that note I wonder if Morris is currently thinking something similar? perhaps not, Kevin seems far more relaxed than Pweb, the contrast might not be so clear.
Morris being busy this week with Kevin is hard for him but in a way its good for me- I know how much Morris loves me, we've spent enough time together for that to be abundantly clear, but Rick was always the unknown quantity. With Morris temporarily disabled Ive spent more time with Rick, making up for all those wasted months and getting to know him on a more emotional level. Of course I miss Morris something chronic but the things i've learned about R are probably worth it.
Friday is Bears night at Kamo, and our first big outing as a threesome. Our first big ANYTHING as a partnership really- should be interesting.
