Joy

Awoke to the most fantastic phone call from R and M. Theyre stunned that they were letting it slip, and didnt want to think about it for fear of breaking something good. But now its out in the open theyre both very keen on the idea. We're going to talk about it and figure out the best way to do this- slowly and openly and honestly will be the key. No-one wants to damage our friendship, but everyone wants to try for something deeper.

For a manly bloke im SUCH a crybaby.

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Picked up Phil from the airport last night too- he's a lovely snuggly wee bear, very intense but friendly as all hell :-) Ive been warned that he gets somewhat attached, so we talked about that in the car- I explained that for now I was happy to be friends, and wasnt looking for a fulltime husbear. He understood and pointed out that that was all that was likely anyway, him living in Australia and me in NZ and all...