I think from my own experience that you can have friends you care about and also have sex. The boundries crossing over from what is a loving friendship to what a relationship is can be defined. I have a wonderful friend of 10 years and we still have sex when ever we see each other and I love him to bits, but I dont want to marry him. I personally hope you dont change the way you interact with your current friends. being one of them I would feel sad if when we talk, hang out or play that our friendship love (not relationship love) wasn't there. that's one thing I have enjoyed from knowing you. We both like to get to know the person we are playing with. Not just a wham Bam fuck me man and go. I also think I am lucky in that I do live 4 hours by plane away from you. It means the times we do spend together are great and wonderful but we also know it cant go beyond that. I would be honest in saying if I was in NZ or you here in Melbourne I would try and win your heart and I am sure many men who live away from you would like to as well. But, I know that is not possible so I love the friendship love we have and I would not want to lose that at all. So dont try and change to much just be yourself and be happy
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Date: 2005-04-01 11:25 am (UTC)I personally hope you dont change the way you interact with your current friends. being one of them I would feel sad if when we talk, hang out or play that our friendship love (not relationship love) wasn't there. that's one thing I have enjoyed from knowing you. We both like to get to know the person we are playing with. Not just a wham Bam fuck me man and go.
I also think I am lucky in that I do live 4 hours by plane away from you. It means the times we do spend together are great and wonderful but we also know it cant go beyond that. I would be honest in saying if I was in NZ or you here in Melbourne I would try and win your heart and I am sure many men who live away from you would like to as well. But, I know that is not possible so I love the friendship love we have and I would not want to lose that at all. So dont try and change to much just be yourself and be happy