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[growler_south]

interesting.

Thats TWO people who have suggested I may be using sex like a drug- as a way to escape from (something?) Am I an addict? do I find myself wanting to spout extremely addict-like lines? (I can give it up anytime I like. Its not hurting anyone. The problem is the way YOU react to it)

Something to think about then. Is enjoying intimacy without emotional baggage really all that destructive? and to whom? Is it possible to have sex with someone and not become emotionally involved? (It is for me but im an emotionally-stunted robot, according to my Ex ;-))

I dont see sex as any more damaging than my obsession with cars- both can use my time, both are rewarding and enjoyable, neither impacts on my life or my future- well, not that I can see at this stage.

hmmmm.....

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[debxena.livejournal.com]

(using icon just to bug you)

I don't think you're emotionally stunted (FWIW). And as a poly-fan, I think sex in and of itself can be fine, as long as you're not being self or other-destructive about it.

[growler-south.livejournal.com]

Thanks hon, I dont REALLY think im 'emotionally stunted' but my easygoing nature can sometimes be misinterpreted as such... and i dont believe I have a sex addiction either- but since two people have mentioned it, i'm obliged to investigate it, eh.

[growler-south.livejournal.com]

Oh and the icon doesn't bug me, i've seen more (MUCH more) than that and didnt run away squealing... LOL

[debxena.livejournal.com]

*big grin*

You can't let anything go, can you?