Do not adjust your mindset.

I'm spring-cleaning the inside of my cranium at the moment- the recent upheavals have revealed a lot about who I am and how I love, and now its time to process all that information into something concrete- to learn some lessons and change some habits.

I just needed a slap to remind me that experience is fuel for change, but doesnt just happen.

Expect some odd posts. Expect aspects of me to disappear (like my gaydar profile) and reappear when I know who I want to be. Expect me to be the same old Growler, only calmer and happier.