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Feb. 14th, 2007 03:01 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
"So, you're handsome and smart, why haven't you been snapped up?"
Thanks, Sharon* from reception, your voice muffled by the giant bouquet of roses your husband bought for you, undying love expressed with a gold card and phone-order florist. That's not even his writing on the card, you know.
For your information, you tactless cow, its not from lack of opportunity, its by choice. Or, more correctly, necessity. I'm broken. Faulty. Damaged goods. Temporarily off the market. Gunshy. Window shopping. Being 'snapped up' is a terrifying prospect.
About the best I could manage right now is a long, slow burn with someone who's as much a friend as a lover, short periods of intimacy followed by long periods of separation, more a promise of things to come than an exploration of now. And what sort of idiots are going to stand for that sort of relationship?
Yup. Everything is absolutely perfect: Keep your flowers, I have air miles and I couldnt be happier :-D
*names changed to protect the clueless
Thanks, Sharon* from reception, your voice muffled by the giant bouquet of roses your husband bought for you, undying love expressed with a gold card and phone-order florist. That's not even his writing on the card, you know.
For your information, you tactless cow, its not from lack of opportunity, its by choice. Or, more correctly, necessity. I'm broken. Faulty. Damaged goods. Temporarily off the market. Gunshy. Window shopping. Being 'snapped up' is a terrifying prospect.
About the best I could manage right now is a long, slow burn with someone who's as much a friend as a lover, short periods of intimacy followed by long periods of separation, more a promise of things to come than an exploration of now. And what sort of idiots are going to stand for that sort of relationship?
Yup. Everything is absolutely perfect: Keep your flowers, I have air miles and I couldnt be happier :-D
*names changed to protect the clueless
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Date: 2007-02-14 02:53 am (UTC)There's the built-in assumptions that everyone wants to be part of a couple, and that there's something odd about anyone much beyond puberty who doesn't.
In my case, the facts that I'm both weird and picky - so anyone strange enough to find the idea of living with me appealing is not likely to be appealing to moi. This pretty much assures I'll wind up living by myself but for a number of cats in my old age... this is not a bad thing; I like cats, often more than I like people.
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Date: 2007-02-14 03:12 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-02-14 03:16 am (UTC)*shrug*
Funny thing is, I always get that question from people that are not "doing any snapping up" at the moment.
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Date: 2007-02-14 03:18 am (UTC)"You're gonna make a great husband someday Stephen."
"I've been a great husband to two men and a shitty husband to two others. Right now I'm just trying to be good to myself."
True story
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Date: 2007-02-14 03:46 am (UTC)the #1 question to me on bear411. oy.
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Date: 2007-02-14 11:54 am (UTC)*smooch*
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Date: 2007-02-15 12:46 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-02-15 03:57 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-02-14 03:53 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-02-14 11:53 am (UTC);-)
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Date: 2007-02-14 04:03 am (UTC)I'm glad you're happy. I love reading about your weekend escapades, and your intercontinental flirting with a certain pair of guys makes me flush chokecherry red every now and then.
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Date: 2007-02-14 06:39 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-02-14 11:44 am (UTC)Besides, you picked up on the point of my wee pity-party: I have everything I want and can handle right now. Wouldnt ask for more :-)
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Date: 2007-02-14 05:17 am (UTC)but it still hurts
i know
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Date: 2007-02-14 05:37 am (UTC):-)R
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Date: 2007-02-14 11:52 am (UTC)Love you too, wee bear.
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Date: 2007-02-14 07:35 am (UTC)Well,"Sharon",enjoy your damned flowers,cos they aint nuthin compared to the fabulous sex life we have.And all you have is flowers.
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Date: 2007-02-14 11:48 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-02-14 10:14 am (UTC)You're just a bit outta tune, dear Growler.
What you need is some easy miles, frequent fluid exchanges, and some TLC to get your rusty bits polished up. Those carb hiccups will blow out if you rev high once in a while, and in the meantime you can tighten up your bolts in the comfort of your own garage.
Sharon's question may have been clueless, but as they say, "Outta the mouths of babes..."
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Date: 2007-02-14 11:46 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-02-14 08:37 pm (UTC)And BTW, I'm that kind of idiot.
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Date: 2007-02-15 03:58 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-02-14 04:08 pm (UTC)Hugs ta help the repairin along....