Its update time!

[growler_south]

It's been a while since I updated my online profiles. Hell, it's been a while since I logged into any of them. Seeing messages dating back a couple of months is pretty amusing. One particular site which shall remain nameless *cough*nzdating*cough* has a lovely wee rant from one gentleman over the course of a month. From "Woof! you're sexy" through "want to meet for coffee?" to "Are you ok?" to "Hey, its polite to at least say hi" to "Fuck you pretentious asshole, think you're so much better than anyone else". *giggles* Dont they log when my last access was? Anyway, most of my pics were from happier, slimmer times, and the text was a little outdated, so they've all been freshened. Except Bear411 which has been deleted.

Deeply loving and loyal to my friends, I take life as it comes and love to share the journey with those around me. I strive to better myself, and quietly hold unconventional views on spirituality and the way the world works.
I'm multitalented: I earn money from computers, but I also build furniture, tinker with cars, cook and tend bars. Usually you'll find me out sharing time with my friends, but I appreciate quiet time to myself as well.

I'm currently unattached and complicated- Life's full of opportunities for me right now and keeps me on my toes. I have no idea where I'll be this time next year, but it's sure gonna be fun! The result of all the upheaval is that I'm not looking for a relationship, and only rarely looking to hook up. I`m physically attracted to big, beefy guys, but a lack of personality, love and mutual respect will turn me right off. I tend not to enjoy casual, uncaring sex- I`ve moved past the physical act being the be-all and end-all of sex. The sort of thing that I enjoy involves trust and respect and synergy, a mutual exploration of roles and desires, and requires a bit more nurturing than I'm in a position to be offering to anyone but my closest friends right now.

I love my life, relish the challenges I face, and love to surround myself with a family of likeminded people. If you think we'd get along, I'd love to hear from you!

Comments

[roybear.livejournal.com]

What's the go with Bear411? Has it brought you bad experiences?

[growler-south.livejournal.com]

Mainly its because the site is so ugly it gives me a headache, but also because of the way its managed. There just happens to be a good rundown of it Here on Bear411sucks.com.

[roybear.livejournal.com]

I had no idea. Thanks.

[furr-a-bruin.livejournal.com]

And now there's news of a major security hole in the B411 software. I was waiting until 4/11 to delete my profile, but after this - I wasted no time in notifying my "pals" and deleting my profile.

[growler-south.livejournal.com]

Even worse, it's poohbearjim's hole that was the first to be discovered!

[mikeybill.livejournal.com]

I wondered why you didn't respond to all my nzdaitn messages ! You bastard ! ;-)

[jeneration.livejournal.com]

This post is probably a good excuse for me to pop my head up and say "Hi, hope you don't mind if I add you to my friends list". You're a friend of a few friends of mine, and have a few interests in common with me. I am also about to move to NZ.

No obligation to reciprocate, just don't want to be a mysterious lurker!

[stivalineri.livejournal.com]

What you've written on your profile is so uncannily similar to what I feel nowadays myself. I don't want a relationship, I don't even think I want to date, but I have to feel some sort of connection, some fraternal feeliing, something visceral. Otherwise I'd rather be my own sexual partner.