Awww...

[growler_south]

Mo: "If you want to play with R grant then do it. I have no right to tell you who you can and cant play with. But thank you for the thought. I am just trying to be seen as an individual as well as 1 of 3. I know that sounds silly."

*love*

Silly bear, thinking I wouldnt understand. It sounds like the man I love talking- an individual, happy to be himself and to explore his own way, secure in knowing that he has two husbears who love him dearly and will always be there for him.

We all need time to ourselves, time to grow as individuals.

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[ink-ling.livejournal.com]

Dang! I think this is wonferful! I am getting there myself! In steps ... . :)

[growler-south.livejournal.com]

Supress gag reflex now: If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, its yours. If it doesnt, it never was..."

Except in the case of *this* unconventional and very open relationship I'd say "if you love something, encourage it to be free.."

We know we will always come home for the things we cant get as individuals, so we encourage each other to go and explore on our own.

I think its an issue of trust: if you never set someone free, you're always worried they will run away. If you set them free all the time and they keep coming back, you never have that worry.

[beastbriskett.livejournal.com]

My Mom gave me a coffee mug that had that saying on it, but the last line went, "if they don't, hunt them down and kill them."